My name is Payam Pakmanesh and I use my goofy nature, fused with my down to earth style, to help single, busy men be more confident in their relationships and unlock a version of themselves they didn’t know existed.

Tell me if any of these phrases rings a bell:

  • “I feel like I over-analyze that to nth degree.”
  • “I second guess everything.”
  • “I’m reading far too much into things that may not be there.”

Yup, I used to be in your shoes. I didn’t want to change who I was to get more dates or meet the woman of my dreams. For some men, you know, the life-of-the-party type guys, confidence may come natural.

That’s when it hit me. The universe does not hand out luck evenly or equitably.

But I wasn’t ready to give up just yet. I started reading, learning, and practicing. Eventually I became addicted to being uncomfortable and learning. This is when dramatic changes started happening and being single — became an option.

Once I figured out the detailed mechanics to get more comfortable (there’s no magic formula), my confidence & charisma exponentially improved. My intuition is telling me that if helped me (I’m just a normal Joe Shmoe), it will help you, too.

[Warning]: My advice isn’t for everyone.

It’s for smart, shy guys that care about their self-improvement. They are looking for a roadmap that’s clear, direct, and easy-to-read. They want a detailed, step-by-step plan instead of just waiting for the right girl to come along.

If that sounds like you, this is a great place to start.